Staying connected with a loved one in long-term care isn’t always easy — especially when distance, schedules, or health concerns get in the way. But small, intentional gestures can make a world of difference in helping them feel seen, supported, and loved. Here are five meaningful ways to stay actively engaged, no matter where you are.
1. Send a Weekly Memory Message
Try sharing a favorite memory, photo, or inside joke each week. Whether it’s a quick video, voice note, or written message, these familiar moments spark joy and help maintain emotional closeness.
“Remember when we used to bake cookies every Sunday? I can almost smell them now. I miss those moments with you.”
2. Create a Shared Routine
Consistency provides comfort. Set a recurring time for a virtual coffee chat, prayer moment, or even watching the same TV show together. When they know they can count on you regularly, it brings peace and reassurance.
3. Ask Questions That Invite Storytelling
Instead of asking “How are you feeling?” (which can be difficult to answer), try questions like:
- “What made you smile today?”
- “Who did you see around the community this week?”
- “What’s something you’re looking forward to?”
These open-ended prompts encourage richer, more joyful conversations.
4. Celebrate Small Wins
Every improvement, no matter how small, is worth celebrating. Whether they took an extra lap during physical therapy or enjoyed a good meal, acknowledge it. Your encouragement builds motivation.
5. Make Communication Accessible
If your loved one is not tech-savvy, make sure messages are delivered in simple formats — larger text, easy-to-play voice notes, or printed letters. The goal is making engagement effortless, not overwhelming.
Staying connected doesn’t require grand gestures — it simply takes presence with purpose. At Their Side helps families communicate more easily and meaningfully through secure tools designed for both care teams and loved ones.
Because staying connected isn’t just important — it’s healing. 💙
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